Dearest, dearest cherubs:
Yes, there are two dearests in there. I have been thinking of you all.
I have been thinking about my life which seems to have taken up an interesting challenge. How to get around with one foot incapacitated?
But you know it's not so much the foot that is bothering me. It's the state of the world that's bothering me. I just picked up my yellowed newspaper which I carefully saved after President Obama's election. What in the world is everybody so danged unhappy about I wonder?
Ok, I usually do not care for one sided opinions. Opinions should be fueled by fact and careful research into both sides etc.
There are no easy answers to anything, there are no easy fixes. When, oh when will Americans figure this out?
Do you expect a president to cure your economic ills? I have some advice for you. Go back to school! I suggest you aquire a credential. I suggest you learn some stuff. I suggest you face the fact that manufacturing in America is done and get on with your life. We are making the transition to a global economy. It's not done yet. It will hurt for a long time. It will hurt and it will stink and you will get angry. But think about this -- the solution is up to YOU.
It's often what I say to women who come to me with problems about men. There are no white knights on horses. Get over it. Your happiness is up to you.
I don't know if I will lose my job. But if I do, getting a new job will be up to me and it will be nobody elses problem. I will be frightened I'm sure. I will be emotional, I'm sure.
I am emotional now. I am a former ballet dancer with a foot that no longer will ever, I mean ever, function as it did. But for heaven's sake it's not President Obama's fault. It's not the fault of the MBTA who had black ice on the curb at the Franklin/Dean station. It was just an ACCIDENT. We use that word because stuff happens that we can't predict. Stuff just happens.
We must have a sense of history. For quite a few years, we allowed excesses to happen in the financial markets. We allowed it (and you can't blame the government, because they are us, and we are them) and why did we allow it? Because people were making money hand over fist, that's why we allowed it.
You all know it. You all used your houses like banks. We all did it. We need to get over it and do the learning that must be done.
My friend Lou Longo speaks often of responsibility. You may not like the consequences of what has happened. But if we all take responsibility, then we can be like the great generation after World War II that Tom Brokaw writes about. We will recover and we can teach our children how to recover.
I'm just thinking out loud as usual my dearest cherubs. Thanks so much for listening.
All my love to all of you.
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You are wise beyond our control!
ReplyDeleteI enjoy your posts very much. - Wayne
I know what you mean about taking responsibility. there are lots of things that happen in our lives; some we create and some we have to contend with after they are thrust upon us. how we cope or how we stress about it all is what counts. stressing only hurts us; coping makes us wiser and stronger. as you know I'm coping right now, trying to figure out what direction to go. I know where I want to be, just gotta figure out how to get there. it's getting a bit clearer every day. and I'm coping every day. thanks for being a friend. Ken
ReplyDeleteYour attitudes and thoughts are refreshing music to my ears. I wish more people felt that way.
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